In your case, the idea is to find a way through the walls she built up sooner than later. Without being pushy or threatening.
I have heard this from another person also, but I'm not sure why she built up these walls, or how to go about breaking through them.
We still get along good, and while she is distant she is generally nice to me. She also has been doing more of her share of the house chores, has cut back on the 1-2 hour a day workouts, and is journaling her cute little butt off. Any idea's?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
