MrsD: Its going to be that way for a while im afraid, you'll have good days and bad. I think the important thing is that we recognize both, and especially recognize the bad ones.
And I know exactly what you mean about thinking about them getting closer, but again, recognize that you really know nothing about their relationship and whether they're getting closer together or farther apart. Fix you....make yourself so attractive that there's no other choice for him or any other man. I know that it seems hard to fathom right now, im in the exact same boat, but even with almost zero interaction he'll see, it, hear about it from others...somehow he WILL find out when your life really shines as a result of your changes.
My wife sent me a congratulatory text last night that said she was never worried about me winning b/c i've done all the right things....I had another friend (female) text me last night saying to keep working because the changes im making are 'showing' in my life. Guess those things should have me feeling good, but my wife's demeanor yesterday has me down still.....anyway, not trying to talk about me, just trying to make the point that when your changes have had enough time he'll see them. Im convinced that b/c of history etc that our spouses or ex's are some of the last people to see them b/c they don't wanna admit that they're looking, or that they notice. But once others start to notice and comment then you know that its really showing in your life and at that point he can't help but notice soon as well.
