I hear what hou are saying. I also know that every situation is different. Most of the advise and support i have received has been a great help. No i have not followed ever piece of advice but again it is advise and no one knows my situation better than me. Like the majority of people on here i try and do what i think is right at the time and take note if it worked or not. Yes i have let my emotions get the best of me. It is what humans do.
Two months ago she was back and ready to try again. The reasons she said she was back was because through out this whole situation i have done what i did. Yes she retreated again. Not because of something i did but because of what i did not do. I did not protect her from my custody battle and all the crazyness involved with that. I am now following labug and crazyville advise and trying to provide my W with some peace and seperation from all that. I have taken there advise to heart and it has really opened my eyes as to what my W has been going through.
We all have to take the advice that feels right for us. If i screw up then i have no problem owning it and in the long run only time will tell. I am learning to be ok with that.
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13
