Marriage counseling had its ups and downs emotionally, especially for my wife. Her consistent theme was that the only thing that will make her happy is getting a divorce. After 3 1/2 months of MC, she put a Big Smiley Face in her journal. This was the same week that she cooked 2 meals for me. She had not anything since the end of 2008 through May 2010.
Then the day after she cooked the 2nd meal, i got a phone call from her former best friend for over the past 20 years. My wife had promised that she would not be in contact with her friends boyfriend, but this girl told me that a b-b-q my wife attended that the guy was there the whole time. This is the guy from December 5th, who she was going to stop by to Be In His Arms, Cuz He Eas Tje Only Guy For Het.
I called her about the b-b-q and she said he was just showing up when she and our son were leaving.
2 months later she delayed or cancelled MC temporarily, but in actuality it was over. When she was supposed to be starting her school bus driving job in August, she said she was going to stop off at her Grandmas. 15 minuted after she left our home, we were talking on the phone and i heard a train whistle. No trains near Grandmas, but there is one by that guys house. I drove there and thought it was her car in the back of the driveway, but drove to the other side of gown to check out Grandmas 1st, just to be sure. 2 minutes after i get there, she pulls screeching in and we have a loud exchange. She threw her wedding ring at me and i felt defeated and done.
I barely remember the rest of the time frame from then till she moved out in February, 2012.
Taking a break from typing on the cell phone again.
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012
