the hole thats missing is that ONE person who cares. I know I felt this way a little before when we seperated years ago, like when my son isnt with me and I go home and the house is empty and you sit all night and the phone never rings you wonder if anyone cares. Truth is thats our own mind doing it to us, of course people care, but we've been in relationships or married so long that we've become accustomed to being 'checked on' and its uncomfortable when thats gone.

Hi Carnac,

you expressed to a 'T' how it feels for me as well.

thanks.

Busting

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home