Hi Jackie - I vote to wait until after the vacation and see how things are going before having that conversation. Kind of like the sleep-on-it rule! Have a great trip! Know what you mean about seeing glimses of the old patterns - you are doing a great job recognizing them, and taking steps to change your patterns, which is a huge step, I think. (((((((Jackie))))))
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche