CV, thanks for looking in. my DIL said pretty much the same thing.
vero, i get what you're saying. i think a part of me wants him to FEEL the pain i felt. it would also give him a clearer picture of what his D22 is really like.

but, it would not be the right thing to do if i'm really trying to be a better person. at least, not now.

i think the time to let him know about all of it, if i do, will be when there's no anger about it left. if there's still anger, my motives are probably "pay back".

thank you both for helping me make the right choice.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing