IB, Congratulations on your new home. This is the first step of beginning your new life. You can decorate it to your taste and create new memories. Your xh won't be able to bully you about anything you do or don't do once you have moved.
A new world is out there waiting for you! Go for it!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
