Not sure I'm doing this right but here goes Ive been married for 17 years , and have two sons ages 16 and 13, its been half my life with this man and I think he is not in love with me anymore, He says he feels left out since starting working away from home five years ago, lately he has been gone three months and it's taking a toll, Atleast we are talking now without arguing but it feels like I'm walking on egg shells and it just feels fake and emotionless, He will not say he loves me or have a good night or good morning, I can understand how he feels left out but he has not made an effort to show the kids effection or do stuff with them without yelling or being bossy, so they just try to stay out of his way when he is home, and it hurts him, but his Dad was not a good example of fatherly love so how is he gonna know what to do. I don't know what to do , I feel like I'm in a loveless marriage He dosnt show affection or talk to me like a normal person I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing to set him off. He always threatens divorce if I don't do what he wants Im a pathetic mess I know
