Originally Posted By: roughenough
I hope it’s not a taboo subject, but oh well. A good friend of mine that I have a lot of respect for told me something very interesting yesterday. He said that religion, church, etc… played a major role in the limited marriages that he’s seen reconcile. Would anyone of you agree?


It played a role in my M reconciling. My W is a believer and her faith is important to her. I, on the other hand, have always resisted. I have tried to open my mind and heart to it more so since she left me. But she has mentioned that her belief in God caused a lot of conflict in what she was doing early in our S. So, I think that it played a role in keeping her heart "in the game" so to speak. Especially when she thought that she hated me and was done with our M.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce