So what are the opinions...simply part of the dance where I pull away and she comes forward? Or what?
Yes. Make a note of it as a small, positive, step. And take it as a sign that what you are doing may be working. Therefore... continue doing whatever it is that you are doing.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce