That is basically what I have been trying to do, but with less conviction than the way you state it.
It really kind of dawned on me tonight, why should I show her anything other than a co-parent when she is the one that walked out. I no I am not perfect, but I always acted with the best intentions for my family. If that is not good enough for her, it is her loss. I will/am learning what it takes to keep love alive. Hopefully I will be able to practice what I have learned with my W, if not, someone else will be the lucky lady.
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