WAS. Seem to all believe that post d they should improve their lifestyle. Lol

I am a total believer in finding off the books work via craigs list. Doing it on your own time and making your own hours. No benefits but maybe stay on your h.


Also I know friends that rent out extra bedroom. It has really helped pay their bills and some trade rent for babysitting services.

I have also found that now I am able to deal with my office job a lot better then I used to. Through this program and alanon I am just able to focus on myself more. Do the best job I can and not take criticism as a personal judgement on. It is actually a big relief.

I appreciate my job more. I am not changing the world or helping anything or using my mind but I make decent money and don't have to work too much so I have time with my kids. I now focus on the good parts of my gig not the sucky parts.

Hang in there


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13