Where is the U-haul going?

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Hi Jackie - Things sound really good to me. A 7 is wonderful, considering all you have been through. What a great accomplishment. It is also good to have room to do some more work. I think it's dangerous to feel like evrything is perfect - makes people careless. You too sound like you're really making progress in communicating with each other. Another big step forward.

As far as rowing your own boat - the decision to work is a tough one. As an in between step while you're deciding - how about doing some more things for you - to get out and row your own boat - like your scrapbooking. Are there other things you're interested in? Maybe you could take a new class or join a book club - there are several book clubs here in my town that seem like a lot of fun - and it seems like you enjoy reading - just some ideas. Mybe go to a flyfest! Another thing I had thought of doing - but haven't been able to do because of our work schedules is to work at the shelters around town every once in a while. Just a few ideas of the top of my not so together head. Keep in mind that you're doing and have done a great job.

One other idea - what would you think about picking up an interesting puzzle and planning a date with your H? You did this before, I think, and he really seemed to like it.

It is hard to always keep in mind that they are sensitive too. Try not to beat yourself up. You are doing a wonderful job, and continue to be an inspiration to me and so many others here.

Thank you for posting on my thread! I appreciate it more than you know. (((((Jackie)))))