Jackie, I think your T is doing good with the two of you. T doesn't want you to "get bored" and go back to old habits. I can see how easy it can be to do that!
I think your goal should be to spend some quality time together! Try anyway, afterall you need a R with each other, kids won't be there forever!
What things do you have in common? List them. And try fitting them into your lives!
