Jackie..glad things are going smooth..keep doing the things that you have learned..it is hard not to say things somethimes..I catch myself biting my tongue..as I say to myself would that really be beneficial to say..no!You have to find the time alone..that is partly why h is keeping his apt..we have alone time there, and we have been apart for what seems forever, and it is hard to become a couple again after doing things alone..Sorry about your inlaws..but be the bigger person and try your hardest to treat them as if you were just meeting them..and remember that if tthey choose not to respond then it is THEIR problem and THEIR loss..not yours!

hang tough

Sue