well he's given you the clarity you needed, hasn't he?
I don't think he's trying to panic you with his ignorance, but he may be passive aggressive/in denial AND hoping YOU will step up to the plate and bat for him...
NOT repaying the 401k is stupid if all you care about is finances
BUT WHAT IF paying off credit cards frees him to spend on himself and OW?
You and he share the debt while NOT sharing the spending...do you see how that works?
Sorry, I mean that's a possibility. You'll BOTH repay the 401K but ONLY he and OW get to spend the Ccs' on themselves...not exactly fair is it? Tell the L...
Maybe you don't need to cut back quite so much...
Well, he wants you to spend the money on a L, instead of saving it, um...OKAY!
enough said. You handled it well. He did not. So be it.
Hold your head high, you didn't lose your temper and 99% of us would have.
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