Oh... and just a correction. I found OM hiding on the toilet, with the lights out, in the house that my W was renting while we were separated. I'm not sure that I would have been nearly as nice as I was had it been my house.
Hang in there Rough.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce