Hey Rough. Sorry to read the new news. I've been there man. I know it hurts like hell. You have no choice but to go through that hurt. It will get better with time. That, I can promise.

What you don't want to do right now is let this change your direction. No rash decisions. The worst thing that you can do is let an angry or hurt reaction destroy everything that you have worked so hard on up to this point.

Give this a couple of weeks to soak in. Don't do anything. There is absolutely no reason that you have to do, say, or feel anything about it right away. It is best if you just be right now. Let time do its work.

I suggest that you tell your wife the following if she asks you about you dating again:

"I am married and am behaving as such."

THAT is it.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce