Yes, that sounds more like the H I know. And knowing him, the negative and dark aspects of reducing spousal support or opportunity to rebuild R are all there.

I just can't picture him telling his work buddies (who have met me & the boys) that he might want to work with me while/after D me. I just can't imagine what they thought.

It does make me feel like he isn't having an A with someone he works with which was a fear of mine. Maybe we could work out at the gym together! Lol!

Thanks for your perspective.


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway