Yes, that sounds more like the H I know. And knowing him, the negative and dark aspects of reducing spousal support or opportunity to rebuild R are all there.
I just can't picture him telling his work buddies (who have met me & the boys) that he might want to work with me while/after D me. I just can't imagine what they thought.
It does make me feel like he isn't having an A with someone he works with which was a fear of mine. Maybe we could work out at the gym together! Lol!
Thanks for your perspective.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway