Does this mean, in your opinion, that I have changed my core self, though I have just re-directed that particular "selfness" attribute elsewhere? Just asking in the spirit of lively discussion ...
no, i don't think so - what you have done (in my mind) is to KNOW your core self and to adjust your capabilities and apply them to what suits the situation best , keeping your core values in mind - in this case being that you believe that your marriage and relationship with your wife is extremely important to you.
In other words, you are doing what works!
just my thoughts...
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
