Just another POV on the IL thing. My MIL is one of my closest friends - or was - until H left. Then it was hard because it wasn't fair to talk to her about this because it would be awkward for her and me.
Then I stopped saying much to her about my H and I because she didn't have a very optimistic POV as her H left when my H was a child and didn't come back and had no involvement in their life.
The kids and I still do alot with MIL, but the depth of our relationship may not ever recover from this. Even if my H comes home, it may never be the same. That makes me sad.
So it can happen both ways. I am sure your IL don't say anything for fear that anything they say could be miscontrued by you or your H to favor the other. So by not saying anything, they offend noone.
Just enjoy the weekend and act AS IF. You have done it before and can do it again. After all, it is only a few days -
Have a great one if I don't get back on here before then.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
