Jackie - I think I've mentioned this before, but not sure - is it possible that your inlaws just didn't know what to say? My own in laws never said one thing to me until very late into the whole thing. And then it was just my MIL, my FIL never said anything to me, although I know now that he was devastated and heartbroken about his son leaving. I had some angry feelings toward them before they said anything to me. I think what you're feeling is a normal response to their silence. Maybe I'm way off base, just a thought.


Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche