It is ironic but giving space does not harm your relationship at this point. Even if your W previously claimed that you neglected her, she doesn't want your attention now, so to force it on her does you more harm than good. She wants space, give it to her, you're being the best husband you can be by giving her the space she wants. You told her you wanted to reconcile, if she wasn't deaf she heard you.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015