I think it's great that she wants to move back in...BUT what about you? I was following your sitch for a long time and as I remember she was giving you the equivalent of the "emotional stiff-arm" for a long time. What changed in her words?
You've figured out how to make it on your own, a couple more months isn't going to hurt to make sure this is right for YOU, right?
If she had a "falling out" at work that was bad enough that they asked her to leave (which is what it sounds like), then chances are she still has some issues going on with her personality that she's not facing. I would want to be darn sure I wasn't her "any port in a storm" solution to a current crisis. I would want to make sure she is *committed* to meeting your needs, helping you heal, and taking your marriage to something better than you had before.
At a minimum she would need to agree to MC, and I would probably do 2-3 sessions before you agree to let her move back home.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
