Lol, thanks Cadet. I do have plans to keep myself busy with projects, activities and friends.
About 3 months ago I posted my story on the 'talk about marriage' board. Activity there is quite high, but almost everyone advised me to go super snoop to root out any affair, show her the door, and file for D before she does. This advice flew in the face of what I learned from the other sources I used for marriage saving guidance, and seemed like a sure fast track to end my marriage, which is not what I wanted. It's so much better to be here where members actually work to save marriages, even if the activity in my thread is not as high.
My wife and I have worked through things for 33 years, I hope we can somehow get through this.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
