Tonight was just a crappy night. I was informed that OW plans to take legal action against me because she says I have publically given out her name and accused her of hacking my computer. This is the only place I have said that I think it was her. And we all know I never said her name.
I have never even said her name on FB. When all the crap started I unfriended her. That is all. A few of my close friends know her name because she was hanging out with us so much.
She got a job in computer security forensics and is worried I will cause her harm. She says she is turning in her hard drive for her laptop and tower for forensic exam, to prove she didn't hack my computer. I (for some unknow reason) told my X that was pretty funny. When I knew her she had stacks of hard drives and could build computers in her sleep.
I told my X: "I think she does protest too much."
I told X if that is what she wants to to then bring it on. She is a nut. And he is a maroon. A maroon is someone who isn't smart enough to be a moron.
She also claims my sister told people her name and claimed she hacked our Facebook accounts. What my sister did was click the "Share" button under a public post made by OW on FB. The post where OW said "Happy Anniversary" on the one year date from when my sister's H died. A post OW says was taken out of context.
I am sick of all the drama and wish they would all quit. I am trying my hardest to not engage. Easier said than done. My FB page is set to private. And tonight I shared a funny quote from one of my friends. It seemed appropriate at the moment.
It said: "Sometimes.....The first step to forgiveness is realizing the other person....is batchit crazy." Two minutes after I posted that my computer antivirus goes nuts and detects and stops about 90 virius' in a row. I took my computer and showed it to X. All the little screens popping up.
He says: "I know it isn't her because someone is sleeping right now." I said really, how do you know that? He said to me that he knows it and that I don't know anything. I may not know anything, but I know that she is in Askansas and we are in Hawaii and he in fact does not have a clue what she is doing right now.
And he really does call her "someone" when he talks about her. Funny he can't say her name to me. We ended up grumping at each other about some other stuff. And when he told me to go away and quit talking to him I said: "Yes Dear". He blew up and said "I'm not your dear, we're divorced." I said "Yes Dear" because he used the F word about 3 times when telling me to quit talking to him. He doen't curse, normally.
What is funny is this is helping me see the light. Yes Beatrice, he is acting like a lovelorn teen. I just am done in a way I didn't know I could be done. No tears, I'm not really sad, just more astonished that the spew continues from him and her.
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