You took the questions out of my mind. I myself missed my W touch and affection.
In your sitch, IMO, it's good that's she's not mentioning the "moving out' part. Perhaps your 180s are confusing her which is a good sign that she's noticing your changes. So keep doing your 180s. I would tell you be patient but I for one is also trying to learn the action associated with that.
In my sitch we sleep separately and so the sexual tension somewhat diminish. Anyway, this is the call for the vets I'm also watching your thread regarding this. Keep posting...
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.