Tomorrow is a New Day

[mamabird]

You're making progress Hopeful. You'll know when you've reached a little more detachment. You'll feel freer and H's stuff won't have such an impact on you. Do the swimming, fill your life with good things. H can choose whether or not he wants to be part of it. When you start to do these things for yourself, you're going to feel empowered, and he will have less power over you.