Cadet, Thanks so much for the response. I am so torn on what to do. If I stay in he house, I feel that I am ultimately going to be used as a pawn. She will have the freedom to do what she wants without a worry in the world. Right now I think she expects me to stay. She expects me to be the "great provider" as she has called me. It I stay, I am afraid my jealousy will show when she goes "out with friends"! I feel that just moving back in the MBR will cause huge issues.
I agree that she moved out once so what entitles her to the MBR. The truth is I don't know. When I did it I was being a "wuss" like I've been since this all started. I don't know!!!!