I had a couple of bad first dates that I recall. Just coffee dates.
OK - first one I ever went on - the guy asked me out about an hour ahead of time. But being the first time EVER on online dating - I decided to go so I wouldn't get SO nervous.
So he seemed really jumpy, his eyes kept flitting back and forth - he never really looked me in the eyes. It was unnerving at best. Then at the end - his few words spoke volumes. He asked me if I was "jumpy". Then he said it was "nice to put a body to a face". Say what???
Another first "coffee" date was with a school teacher. I remember going to a donut shop and ordering coffee. He asked me if I wanted a donut too but - before I could answer he said "Nah - you don't need it".
These guys were total OAFS. If I never saw them again - it would have been too soon.
