Is there anyone that can read this (Repost above) and help?
Should I continue to stay in the house?
As Cadet said, STAY!! If your W wants to S, then that's on her. Force her to make the hard decisions and live with the repercussions. Moving is a very unpleasant experience, it'll be the first step in your W realizing her vision of paradise isn't reality. Also chances are good that your kids see your place as home base and will see your W's place as foreign, strange and uncomfortable. They will likely want to spend more time with you at home. My W just moved out recently and I've seen these very things play out as described above.
