Quote: I wear them the rest of the time, but not around H. What message am I sending him?
That you're willing to accept whatever outcome there is ... in the meanwhile you are hoping for the best, but willing to move on if need be.
All I can really tell you is I'm sure H notices when they are off ... as to what his interpretation is ????? ... only he knows and anyone he tells.
I always kept mine on in order to enforce my conviction I expressed to her that I didn't believe our M was over and given enough time we will work things out. I did take it off a few times with I was alone in public ... just to see how it feels.
One time I did take it off just before bed. Boy did she notice and questioned me? I just replied that my hands felt all sweaty.
Now she says she doesn't wear it because "its that time of the month", but now its been "that time" for the whole month of January?!
