Hoping it's not too late

[Just A Guy]

I hear you Mandy... It's tough to balance pulling back while there is still so much of you that wants to be totally available for your spouse. It is hard to pull back while loony together. That's been the hardest thing for me so far I can only imagine how hard it is when you don't get to see each other that often and you crave it.

I keep going back to when you told me that just let her go and do her thing because her head is just not in it right now. I think the same applies to you here. Let him go and do his own thing, him saying he is not ready for that step just means he is not ready. You and I both have not heard anything like "we are never goin to work out" so why are we so worried about all these little things? They just distract us from our ultimate goal of fixing our own problems.