"I actually told my wife that I would not be in a M where OM was involved in any fashion a couple of weeks after she moved back in."

this is a boundary without a consequence, hence, it's no boundary at all.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing