Met a guy thru an online dating place. Went out a few times. With each date he show a more bossy and controlling side. And total opposite political and religious views. I call him Nice Guy/Conspiracy Theorist. His latest theory was that the sliced apples on McDonalds Happy meals are really pureed and reformed to look like apples.
Today I want to meet him and tell him I don't want to date him anymore. I hear him talking and I can just see he is just not the guy for me. I'm not looking to remarry anytime soon. And this experience tells me I'm not ready to date, when all I do s compare to X.
So I spent 33 years with a man who rarely expressed an opinion, who left me to do all the planning and who was emotionally distant at best.
What I need to watch for is that I don't read guys the wrong way, and then find out about huge red flag differences. Maybe ask more questions on the first date.
This sounds trite, but I think I just want friends and then maybe find someone among my friends who will become a bigger part of my life.
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
