It is good to know that my phone calls with my ex were a major factor for breaking up with her lover during our separation. She also told me several times to give up. Now 1 year and a couple of months later we are reconciling very slowly.
How did the phone calls go down? I'm trying to figure out what the content of the phone calls were and whether you had an objective. If you stayed out of a subject area, what type of emotions you projected, etc.