Accepting reality, moving on with my life

[breakdownbill]

I'm thinking about what options are out there for me and I've booked a telephone consultation with a solicitor tomorrow to find out legally what my options mean for me financially and regarding custody.

One of the main reasons for not moving out myself is because it could be used against me as abandonment regarding custody.

I also need to protect myself financially.

I just need to be logical and get all of the information before I make a decision on what / how to do it.

A trial separation only serves my wife's purposes, I will no longer be a back up.

Bill