H shared yesterday that he hasn't been eating well. Take-out for breakfast and then usually skipping lunch and sometimes supper too.
So today we're chatting about when we should meet again. And if it should involve fooling around, when he says he has enjoyed us NOT fooling around...
So I say "I'm easy to please - more time doing nothing is fine with me. How about supper? I can make sure you have a decent meal"
And he PANICS!
He doesn't feel he can take that step as long as he's with OW. And he's not sure he's ready to end that yet...
And I finally see, there I go pressuring him again...In my mind, I was trying to be helpful, trying to be sweet - to make sure he is eating. And he sees it as me asking for more than he is willing to give.
