I think this happens a lot in M and can almost creep in without us realizing... we start out saying to ourselves... oh, this isn't a big deal and give in to avoid conflict... without knowing it we give in over and over and either resentment and/or loss of self occurs.
i know that for me, loss of self occurred.
we are not taught how to deal with emotions.. too bad that is not a required school class. seems more important than a lot of other school subjects to a good life.
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13