I think this happens a lot in M and can almost creep in without us realizing... we start out saying to ourselves... oh, this isn't a big deal and give in to avoid conflict... without knowing it we give in over and over and either resentment and/or loss of self occurs.

i know that for me, loss of self occurred.

we are not taught how to deal with emotions.. too bad that is not a required school class. seems more important than a lot of other school subjects to a good life.


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13