Tomorrow is a New Day

[hopefulinga]

Actually, I did tell him I was going to use the computer. I told him that I saw a home remedy to get egg off of a car recently and that I wanted to use his computer to look for it. He never said anything. Since he hadn't used his computer since Friday, I doubt he remembered Skype was open. That is the only computer at the airport. I have my own at home.

I will stop snooping. At this point, he knows I know that he is not being completely honest. And that may be enough for him. This is not something he would want any of his friends to discover (not like I would tell them right now) and I know he would not want D16 to see any shame in him.

Last year I asked him to cut off communications with this woman when her exH threatened my H. He told me that since he wasn't doing anything wrong, he didn't see why he had to alter his life. After that hit, he was talking to her a good bit and there was play by play but it subsided after a while.

What do you think about not bringing it up to him unless something else is discovered or he mentions her name?

I'm thinking that once the facsination/anticipation/nervousness of being confronted by friends goes away, the need to talk to her as much will as well. I've told him that I am uncomfortable with the communications yesterday and today, so he is aware of that. I am afraid to really push it without really knowing what is going on.

He's also told all of his friends that he can back up his side legally, with witnesses and in writing. He is also aware that I could subpeona his text and phone records if I needed to in a D proceeding.

I will say that aside from all of this and his being grumpy last night, he has been treating me a lot better recently with calling me while he was gone, etc. I've thanked him for the small stuff and the calls. However, I know there is a long way to go.