Thanks SS. I think I don't want him to think I am doing more of the same by making an accusation of an A. I'm not sure that I am thinking about upsetting him because I knew when I told him that I saw something on the computer he would be angry.
I like what you put forth and will try that at some point, hopefully soon. Since I don't know where he is with the D and how he really feels about me, do I hurt myself by mentioning the good of our relationship?
After we got married, I still communicated with my ex-fiancee. He asked me to stop and I did.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together