Thanks SS. I think I don't want him to think I am doing more of the same by making an accusation of an A. I'm not sure that I am thinking about upsetting him because I knew when I told him that I saw something on the computer he would be angry.

I like what you put forth and will try that at some point, hopefully soon. Since I don't know where he is with the D and how he really feels about me, do I hurt myself by mentioning the good of our relationship?

After we got married, I still communicated with my ex-fiancee. He asked me to stop and I did.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together