I think W has told her not to tell me where they are moving to.
Mine actually did tell my children not to tell me where they were going to live. At the time my D was 9, so the fact that your D can contact you, I would not worry about it so much.
Right now, all you can do is focus on your R with your D. Call her often or send her a text just to let her know you are thinking about her. Don't overdue it though, and as hard as it may be try not to over compensate for the divorce.
Peace, Eric
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