H text me the other day that he needed me to take the girls early, he had become homeless and didn't want them sleeping in the car. A few hours later I come home to him and the girls waiting for me. It was a first time in a while that he had been in my home. He was so awkward, so uncomfortable. Couldn't sit relaxed on the couch,couldn't look me in the eye, his eyes kept tearing up but would change his focus and gather his composure. It's like him being in my world is uncomfortable for him.
I really don't know who he is or when he's lying. Who knows if he was homeless, out of $, whatever...something about him was just off....is just off. So unatractive on so many levels.
Worst part of all is I had just goten released from the hospital THAT DAY with pneumonia. I sounded terrible, was obviously struggling and he didn't even notice or care. He would see me struggling to breathe correctly while doing something with one of our D and would just sit there, in his uncomfortable daze.
So I really got to thinking...this guy is going to be jobless come Nov 4 when he gets out of the army, has no type of security or $ to his name and is now homeless. Unstable and irresponsible. So I made the decision that the girs aren't going back to him after my week. Now more going back and forth every other week, they are with me now full time. Idk what it would take for me to go back to shared custody-but it will come with some form of a legal inforcable document.
Seriously over this. I text him to let him know, and he didn't even seem phased. He wanted to know why (which is beyond obvious so I didn't answer)but didn't not debate the decision.
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012
