Tomorrow is a New Day

[mamabird]

Ha ha, my H had to do pooper scooper duty today! It had gotten way out of hand. I'd much rather do endless laundry, cooking and dishes!

Ok. Skype. That's not a good sign. So clearly he's communicating with her via Skype. I will tell you that part of me wanted to see how far I could push my H when I had my texting thing. Part of me just wanted to see what he would do. Now I know!

You COULD say I'm not comfortable with this relationship and if I ever find anything inappropriate I'm leaving you. You'd have to follow through on it of course. I don't sense you want to do that and I don't sense that you think it would be a good strategy.

However, if it's that important to you, you really do need to let your H know that it makes you uncomfortable, regardless of whether it is or isn't anything. I definitely did not take my H seriously enough in this regard because I always thought, "This isn't anything so it shouldn't matter." WRONG.

How old is this chick? If she's in her 20s or 30s he could be just getting a big ego boost from that alone. It sounds like he wants to rescue her as is his way.

Your GAL can be reading, spending quality time with your D (which I see you did this weekend), spending quality time with friends (lunch? I did tons of lunches over the summer). Can you take a weekend alone? Do you like horseback riding? The woman in that book that I told you about loved horseback riding and it was her GAL. Or just spend the evening watching your choice of TV or a movie. It's for you, just remember that.