NOT detaching was part of my 180 and GAL was never a problem - during our R or during the S. Even today, my life goes on...

Only once did I stay home to 'hope' to hear from H. The next day I gave my head a shake and went on leading my life.

Hope comes and goes...I'm hopeful then he says something about OW...

I wonder how long a R can be "paused"...