Hopeful, do you REALLY think there is something going on with this OW or is it just your insecurity coming into play? The way you've made it sound, it seems like there isn't really anything going on. You've said everyone loves him, so it's natural that other women will be attracted to him.
You are the prize. He's home with you every night, even though he's a grump. You haven't been suspicious of his whereabouts, have you? Sounds more like insecurity to me than hard evidence of anything going on.
This is coming from someone who would stay up VERY late texting and if you ever saw any of that behavior, I would be worried. But it doesn't sound like he's doing any of that.
Not to minimize your feelings. Just trying to help you keep it all in check.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
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