Jackie - that sounds good to me too. I think there is discomfort when you start to out things back together - on both sides of things, but you are both doing great.

Retrovaille seems like it might be a good possibility for help too. I haven't gone, but from what I understand, it is helpful with communication.

Maybe take from the C what seems to fit, and consider the rest. If it doesn't fit you and your H, let it go?

Keep up the good work, the pma, the dates and your patience.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.


Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche