Am I in the right forum?

If I asked H he would say that he wants the M to work and that he's committed etc.. I'm just not sure what else he's up to at the same time.

Many thanks

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012