Hi Hopexx, Reading your text it is amazing how much we share, both in pain and experiences/quilt about perhaps why things went wrong and not least how we struggle to stay cool (during the 180 and similar) during our attempts to work it out. FYI I am back at this forum after 8 years and 3 months - now trying to get the WAW to reconsider again as we actually managed to get back together last time! So yes, it can really work, but I never found any shortcuts, any easy way, only suffering and pain and then finally some peace in from a combination of new me (180 completed and firm in place) and starting to let her go (yes, you read correctly)
I doubt it will this "simple" the second time around... :-((
